Monday, August 21, 2006
(: 8:39:00 PM
parents not giving u freedom?parents not trusting u?u feel tt yor parents jus dun understand u?...tis r jus some of the problems teens face with their parents...there r many kinds of parents...n i mean many...some parents let their kids have their own way,some want their kids to do wad they want,some listen to wad their kids want n let them have it their own way if its reasonable...some care too much for their kids,some couldnt care less bout their kids...jus too many kinds of parents...most of the time,its becuz of how the parents show their care orhow they behave tt makes their kids turn out the way they r...there r 2 ways to look into how these problems r cuzed or shall i say 2 views...1 from the parents view,n the other from the children's view...parents view.parents naturally have 1 goal in life...to see their children grow up...n to grow up without havin to go through hardships...well at least most parents tink tt way...the thing we must rmb is tt our parents,they were from the older years where times were different,where comin home straight after sch was so common,blah...their tinking might be different from us...their wrong might be our right...but they were like us before,young n playful...they noe how its like to be a teen,they were once,a teen...their tinking is jus...different...have u noticed how sometimes frens noe bout their frens more than their own parents?tts becuz the teens r now placing frens above their parents...wad causes tis?parents negligence?n them not understanding their children?well,maybe...sometimes parents maybe due to work,have little or no time to spend with their kids...they would like to,but becuz they want to provide a decent n comfortable life for their family,they forget tt being a family doesnt onli mean u have to provide a gd home,but to be a gd family member,to share problems,to face challenges together...wen their children have problems,n try to talk to them,the parents r eother too tired or stressed up to tal to their kids,cuzing the kids(us)to rely on our frens to help us...or it may be the other way round...the parents have a lot of time to spend with their kids,they bother too much bout their kids life...they dun really noe wad privacy is...some do,but others...dun...they believe tt as parents,they have all the right to interfere with their childrens life...which is most probably right...they do tis not becuz they got nothing to do...they do becuz,they want u to have a bright future,they dun want u to do the wrong things...the onli thing is...our future,wad we wanna do,n many more,all lies in our hands...parents may wan u to do tis n tt,but wad u do in the end n how u end up,all lies with u...rmb tt...alrite,enough bout parents view...our view...teens view...no privacy at all!they jus care too much...nagging all day long...they dun care if i die or live...sounds familiar?these r some of the things we say bout our life,our parents...sometimes everything move tt we make,every1 tt we meet or talk to,our parents have a say in it,or have comments...''hu is tt?''''boy or girl''''dun let mi find out u have girlfren/boyfren...if not...''''where r u goin,with hu,wad time ure comin back,wad did u buy,wad did u do...''they jus ask too much questions...they wanna noe everything!some parents even check their childs things,drawers,becuz they dun trust their child...come on!yor own child!family?trust?if the parents didnt do all tis,we wouldnt have to hide things from them...some parents talk too much to their kids,even though its for their own good,but the kids noe,we no,tt weneva our parents speak to us...means trouble?or maybe some other things...tis might be the reason cuzing u to ignore or give yor parents the cold shoulder,avoid them,show our parents attitude,be rude to them...parents may or may not noe tt wad there r doin,wad they r askin,is wad is cuzing us to be lidat...most of the time they do not noe...all they tink is for u to have gd results,n to be a gd person...no wrong in tt...but sometimes...jus overboard...nagging...all day long sometimes for years on ends...but did u noe tt they work...1 example...''before u go to bed,must brush teeth''heard tis wen we were young...n they keep repeating n repeating...n we say they r nagging...well...now u brush yor teeth everytime before bed rite?or at least u noe must do tis rite?by nagging n nagging,they get habits into yor mind,or wad they wan u to do in yor mind...n i have to say tis....they do succeed isnt it?its jus tt whether we do it or not...sometimes,we dun like to go home.to some,home is like a jail,everything must go through the wardens(parents),to others home is a nitemare,jus a place to slp...many more....veri few of us will tink of home as the perfect place to be,where we look forward to go to...we would rather stay at sch or go out with frens than to stay at home...even if we do...we hardly talk to our parents,we still communicate with our frens,via phone,msn,etc.n becuz of al these negative thots of home tt parents give us,or tt parents r monsters,we find ourselves talking with frens more than our parents,spending more time with frens than our parents...is tis how it should be?no!ppl forget tis easily,n nv thot tt it would happen,as they have not experience it...our parents,home,will always be there,unless sth happens(touch wood)...imagine,1 day u had a tiff with yor frens,or tt u have no frens anymore,u found out tt they be frens with u for a special reason,not becuz of hu u r...ypr parents,n home will still be there,waiting...1 day u get into trouble,need money,u fall sick...yes,u might say ure frens can take care,n pay for u...but tink bout it...wad if u were the 1 paying for yor fren,taking care of yor fren...u carn carry on like tis for long!u will still have to go to sch,where r u gonna get the money,or enough money?tts where famiy,home comes in again...they will still be there...though it might be hard to communicate with yor parents,but try,as hard as how yor parents r tryin to communicate with u...dun tink so?tink again...believe mi,1 day wen u become a parent,u will noe the difficulty tt yor parents face now...as long as u have done yor best in yor studies,anything,do yor part as a child...if yor parents still ask for more...it means they r askin for too much...but tts providing u have done yor veri best in evreyting...
